Dare to Be Different
Dare to be different. It's a running thought for most of the couples that I work with. They don't want what their mothers had. Or their best friend. Or their favorite older cousin who got married when they were 10. Pinterest is fun, but … well, it is starting to look an awful lot alike in Pinterest World. What began as a way to expand brides' minds and show them amazing things that can be done has become just another place to become overwhelmed or, honestly, to see what you see everywhere else. Dare to be different.
Your wedding is a once in a lifetime event. It's the biggest celebration you will likely ever have. Weddings are tremendously emotional and full of love. I always encourage my clients to express their individual personalities and their "couple style". Everyone knows you can do that with colors, menu items, special guests (like your pet!) and with your attire — But, what are some other ways you can reclaim your wedding?
1) Celebrations Some families throw a welcome reception (for out of town guests) and farewell brunch. In some cultures it's traditional to have the men and women gather for separate parties. Dare to be different and throw something similar before the rehearsal dinner. The women can get massages and manicures or go to lunch while the men watch a game or go bowling. Consider having a small rehearsal dinner and rent out a karaoke bar for the out- of- towners.
2) Attire Attire is the easiest way to express your style and personality. Fashion is ever-changing and your attire allows you to really express yourself and sent yourself apart from every other wedding you’ve been to. Choose a silhouette (and color) that suits you best. Find a bridal salon or dress maker that will work with your style and body to create something unique.
Wearing white is a fairly new tradition, afterall. Prior to Queen Victoria in the mid 1800s, white was not the go-to color. So, feel free to wear your best color! And don't forget to accessorize in a way that feels natural to you. Are you a hat wearer? Get a reception hat. Perhaps a traditional dress and veil for the ceremony and a brightly colored number for the reception. Change your shoes. Remove a layer. Do what suits you!
3) Timing I love unusual timing for events. Why not cut the cake first? Or have a private last dance? Why not have a private, early-morning ceremony and a brunch reception with your guests? Or, if you're a night owl, what about a late wedding ceremony and reception, followed by a wild after party? The possibilities are endless.
Photos: L-R, top-bottom: Cannolis instead of wedding cake at Bri & Frank’s summer of 2021 wedding, photographed by CK Photo; Jessica’s winter shawl, photographed by CK Photo; A pink dress, photographed by Erin Fox; Custom hats on Jess & Lance, photographed by Darling Juliet Photo; Franklin was the guest of honor at Allie’s Saint Elle Wedding, photographed by Rebecca Renee Photo; A custom painting was the backdrop for Erick + Blair’s wedding cake, photographed by Justin Wright.
